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Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches

Holy Week and Easter Resource Kit - 2001

Maundy Thursday or Holy Thursday:

The focus for this Holy Thursday is compassion.

Compassion: another way of saying this word is:
COME-passion

Holy Thursday as it is referred to by the Catholic Church, or Maundy Thursday as it is referred to by Protestant Churches,  is often seen as the beginning of Passion Week at least in terms of the worshipping body. The full participation of the community of faith in
re-membering the Passion of Christ, often begins with a Seder Meal, taken from our Jewish ancestry or a special Holy Thursday service. This can be a pivotal point in the life of the worshiping community.  It begins a week which prepares the Christian Church for witnessing the passion of Christ and prepares the individual Christian for a week filled with compassion.



There are many ways to create a meaningful presence on Holy Thursday.

A few suggestions follow:


· A Seder – There are many resources available to follow a liturgy of the Seder meal. One possible consideration is to invite a neighboring Rabbi to work with you in the development and implementation of the Seder.

· Silent Communion – Communion is a very reverent and meaningful Christian symbol for most MCC churches and individuals. Because it is offered weekly, as a part of our worship experience, illustrating the consecration, invitation and distribution of the sacrament in silence, with gestures, could be very powerful. If you think this would be meaningful for your congregation, it would be important to prepare people in advance for this experience by notifying the church in the newsletter and or during Sunday announcements. It might also facilitate a powerful and moving experience to have a brief narrative of the sacrament included in the bulletin used for this Holy (Maundy) Thursday service.

· Sign Language Communion – Consider asking someone to sign the words of institution, invitation and distribution by inviting either a member of your church who signs or a person from the community who knows Sign Language. This silent communion could be a powerful presence for both the hearing, hearing impaired and deaf in your service.

All printed parts of this service may be signed.   It is recommended that the bulletin or handout be placed at each seat around the table so that people who are not familiar with sign language may follow the script.

Place a large table/s in the sanctuary depending on number of people you anticipate will be present for this service. Always have more seats than expected and you might consider having an "Empty Chair" which could represent Elijah if you are having a Seder or Jesus if you are commemorating the Last Supper.

Music/Drama:

While people are gathering for the worship service ushers, church leaders, and or the pastor might be dressed in regular street clothes and an apron. If theater or drama is a gift of a member in your church, other possible costuming could be worn to set the stage for this commemorative meal.

Perhaps a solo flute or piano or classical music can be played in the sanctuary as people gather for this worship experience. Candles at the table will lend a warm, worshipful mood.

Once people have gathered around the table and are seated you can begin the following readings.

Scripture Reading

Matthew  15 vs. 32 to 38

And Jesus call his disciples to him and said, ' I have compassion on the crowd because they've been with me now three days and have nothing to be to and I am unwilling to send them away hungry lest they faint on the way.' And the disciples said to him, 'Where will we get bread enough in the desert to feed such a large crowd?' And Jesus said to them, 'How many loaves have you?' and they said, 'Seven and a few small fish.' And commanding the crowd to sit down on the ground, the he took the seven loaves and the fish, and having given thanks, he broke them and gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds, and they all ate and were satisfied. And he took up seven baskets full of the broken pieces left over from those who ate.

A reading from:
Dear HEART, COME Home by Joyce Rupp.

Compassionate one
I sit with empty hands
wondering about the losses of my life.

I sit with empty hands
pondering the pain
of many goodbyes.

I sit with empty hands
searching for decisions
about difficult choices.

I sit with empty hands
facing the limitations
of my life.

I sit with empty hands
looking for my life
among the broken pieces.

I sit with empty hands
sifting through drains
that have disintegrated.

I sit with empty hands
feeling the ache and sorrow
of all my losses.

I sit with empty hands
yearning for the unfolding
of my true identity.

Compassionate One,
I sit with empty hands
trusting that your presence
embraces my pain,
shelters my vulnerability,
and gives meaning
to my countless dyings.

Communion or  Seder

Confession
All: When we sit with empty hands, may we be reminded of the love and the courage you set in motion as you shared the gift of a common-union. Touch our hands that we may infuse the work of our lives with the same love and courage.  May we give when receiving seems grander.  May we love even beyond our widest reach.  May we forgive even in our deepest disappointments. May we trust even within our greatest fear.  We pray that this communion time will be a teacher for us, reminding us, much like Jesus at his last supper, that when our hands are empty from giving our very lives, then we will be full.
 
Benediction
Let us go from here filled with compassion for our world.
COME- passion, fill our hearts and let it be.

(As people leave the sanctuary you might wish to hand them the reflection from Joyce Rupp printed above, with the following suggestion: During the rest of this Passion Week keep in prayer, something or someone for which or whom you have deep passion. As you sit in prayer with empty hands, may your heart be open.)

Good Friday
The focus for this Good Friday is
FORGIVENESS.

Forgiveness: forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves.

Good Friday is in some ways the culmination of Passion Week. It is the day that has been set aside by the Christian Church to remember the death of Jesus on the cross.  Some churches, particularly the Roman Catholic Church, celebrate this day with a reenactment of the “Stations of the Cross”.  This is a service of the Catholic Church that happens throughout the year but has particular meaning on Good Friday.

Good Friday is a day when a simple service helps us remember the death of Jesus and prepares us for the resurrection which will happen Easter Sunday.

One of the most striking Christian characteristics which occurs for us in the crucifixion story happens when Jesus turns to the convicted criminal hanging beside him on Mount Calvary and offers him forgiveness. Later in the same Bible story Jesus says of those persecuting him, “Forgive them for they know not what they do.”  Jesus teaches us that forgiveness is a gift. This act of forgiveness is one of his last actions and one which prepared him to move into new life; a gift he gave himself and a gift he gives to us. Forgiveness is a path which helps to create the space and make a way for us to move into new life.

There are many ways to create a meaningful worship experience on Good Friday.  One possible suggestion is to incorporate the “Stations of the Cross” in their traditional format or perhaps create them into contemporary understanding of the stages we move through as human beings. You might want to call this "Stations of our Lives."

There are 14 stations that make up the “Stations of the Cross.” To create a contemporary  understanding of the suffering of Christ, and in developing the “Stations of our Lives,” the following 14 readings can be read by different members of the gathered community with each person standing solemnly in their place among the congregation and reading their particular selection. When they finish reading the selection, they will take what is written on the paper and lay it at the foot of the cross.

In order to include all of those gathered for this service, make post cards inside envelopes and pens available to each participant. During the service have each person write a person(s) name, or themselves or someone who is particularly difficult to love or even an experience which needs their forgiveness and have a processional at the end of the service where people can lay their forgiving notes lay at the foot of the cross.

As a general rule the sanctuary is stripped bare of all color, flowers, etc., and often times the cross of the Church will be draped. This serves to symbolize that Jesus is hidden from us as Jesus enters the tomb.

The Readings (14)

The Scripture Readings

1. Psalm 130

Out of the depths I cry to You,
O God.
Hear  my voice!
Let Your ears be attentive to the voice of my supplications!

If you O God should mark inequities,
God who could stand?
But there is forgiveness with You,
That You may be feared.

I wait for God, my soul waits,
And in your word I hope;
My soul waits for God
More than watch people wait for the morning

O Israel, hope in God!
For with God there is steadfast love,
And with God is plenty of redemption.
And God will redeem Israel
From all of its inequities.

2. Colossians 3: 12 -16
Put on then as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, and patience, forbearing one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as God has forgiven you, so also must you forgive.  And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you are called.

Contemporary Readings:

3. e.e.  cummings

no time ago
or else a life
walking in the dark
i met christ jesus

my heart flopped over
and lay still while he passed
as close as i am to you
yes
closer

made of nothing
except
loneliness

From the book: 
One Day My Soul Just Opened Up by Iyanla Vanzant

A commentary on forgiveness...

4. "The truth is, when you forgive, you are doing it for yourself.  As it relates to forgiveness, you must give up what you do not want in order to make room for what you do want.  You must give up pain, anger, resentment, and fear in order to experience goodness, joy, peace, and love.  Offering another that forgiveness they need strengthens the spiritual nature in you."

5. "When you withhold forgiveness or love from anyone, for any reason, it diminishes your awareness of the abundance of the good in life.  You are struck in so much old stuff, new stuff has no way of getting to you.  In essence, the good that you withhold from others will be withheld from you."

6. "As long as you hold onto the belief that anyone on earth can do anything to you, you will be unable to forgive.  People cannot change who you are and what you were born to be.  They can create obstacles in your path.  They can do things that make you believe you are other than what you are, but people cannot change, alter, or in any way hinder the truth of your being.  The truth is you are divine."

7. "We cannot realize that there is always more to life than we can see and that the truth is not always visible to the naked eye.  We mistake what we know for all there is.  What we do not realize is, we don't always know the whole story."

8. "Sometimes, we make the mistake of thinking that other people have the power to control or alter our destiny.  It is our beliefs, mistaken and otherwise, that ultimately determine what we will do or be in life, not another person."

9. "When you believe you know the whole story of why someone did what they did and believes that if they had done anything else, you would be different, it is time to forgive."

10. "If you don't like yourself, it is time to forgive."

11. "If there's anyone, anywhere on the planet you can honestly say that you do not love, it is time to forgive."

12. "What I withhold from another will be withheld from me."

13.  "I forgive all!  I release all!  For this, I am so grateful!  To forgive is to be free."

14.  A Prayer for Healing

Healing God,
come to my hidden corners,
open the doors to my soul rooms
that are tightly locked.

Awaken in me.
Bring to life all my deadness.
Enthuse the depressed emotions.
Reenergize my inner weariness.
Bathe the grime of my ego-centeredness.
Clarify my confusions.
Fire my neglected loves.
Brush off my dusty dreams.
Nurture my spiritual hungers.
Ease my sore relationships.
Deepen my sense of self-esteem.
Stir of my connection with the world.

Tenderly gather in your arms
all that still needs healing,
all that remains wounded and wanting.
May I grow each day into greater wholeness
with a stronger, purer inner freedom.
--Joyce Rupp

Music Benediction

Psalm 130

From
The New Century Hymnal page 709.

Please leave your
“forgiving notes” at the foot of the cross and leave the Church in silence

Easter Sunday Sunrise Service

The focus for this Easter Sunday Sunrise Service is: 
Mystery and Wonder

To live and live again, after death, is a mystery and a wonder.

Easter Sunday
culminates Passion Week.  For many Christians Easter Sunday is the highest holy day in the life of the Church.  Easter Sunday is a way all humankind learns again in a powerful way about the dimensions of hope which can bring new meaning to life, even life after death. Passion Week as we have experienced it this year has brought us moments of compassion and forgiveness. Reflecting on the life of Jesus today, we observe again, a mystery and wonder. We have come to know as the life, the death and the resurrection of Jesus the Risen Christ.

There are many ways to make Easter worship special and different:

For Easter Sunrise Service, consider meeting in a city park. Get permission from the city officials for you to plant to tree. Have a plaque made to honor someone in your Church who has died this past year or for someone who is living whom you wish to honor. Have each person who comes to the Sunrise Service bring a spring bulb (be sure to have extras on hand for those who forget or for visitors) and plant them around the tree.

While you are planting the tree and bulbs at the very beginning of the service, you might consider singing the following song.

Music: Morning Has Broken

Call to Worship

One:    This morning God's love breaks through once again.

Many:  We have a moment now, to feel the warmth of God's glory.
             We pray new growth will burst forth.   

One:    This day we experience the compassion of God in Jesus the Christ.

Many:  We have today to sing for Joy and to experience our passion, renewed.

One:    This morning we are free because we have forgiven
             ourselves and others.

Many:  We are forgiven and in forgiving, we are free.

One:     This is the day that our God has made,

All:        We will be glad, and rejoice in it!

Scripture Readings

I Corinthians 15: 51-52

Lo!  I tell you a mystery.  We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet.  For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall all be changed.

The Gospel    John 19: 41-42
Now in the place where he was crucified there was the garden, and in the garden a new tomb where no one had ever been laid.  So because of the Jewish Day of Preparation, as the tomb was close at hand, they laid Jesus there. 

Confession
ALL:


Thank you, God, for the gift of Jesus.  Thank you God, for the gift of my life.  Thank you God for the gift of the lives of those around me here in this place today.  Thank you God for this new day.  Thank you God for your compassion.  Thank you God for your forgiveness.  Thank you God for the mystery and the wonder of life.

In our gratitude, we commend our lives to you this day, we ask as we gather together in community with Christ, that we would re-member your love, your kindness, your faithfulness and not take them for granted.

Forgive us again, and let us receive your gift of common-union knowing that we have been healed and blessed. 
AMEN!

Benediction

This is a new day!  Go from this place knowing that you have NEW LIFE!
Share your life!
Give your life!
Forgive, have compassion and let it be.
AMEN

Rev. Judy Dahl, UFMCC Director of Global Outreach
8704 Santa Monica Blvd., 2nd Floor West Hollywood, CA 90069 USA
Phone: 1-310/360-8640   Fax: 1-310/360-8680  E-mail:
UFMCCHQ@aol.com 
Website: http://www.ufmcc.com

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